We love a good read, aside from our work, but there’s also some great blogs that help us out with learning about other’s experiences as sex workers, the political side of sex work, and also, general sex blogs.
But where do you find good blogs between all of the spam? We’ve come up with some recommendations to help you to build your blog reading list, enjoy!
Sex Work Blogs
We know that lots of sex workers are super busy, but many also have a brilliant talent for writing and telling their own stories, their way, alongside writing about a lot of the political issues that arise with sex work.
Tits and Sass
Tits and Sass writers are sex workers from a variety of different locations and backgrounds - from escorts and pro-dommes to strippers, cam models, and porn performers.
We love the blog because it promotes a positive environment that highlights the realities of sex work.
Jacq The Stripper
We love Jacqueline Frances’s blog, ‘Jacq The Stripper’ - she’s now retired from stripping, however, she is still running her blog and also has a Patreon for her artwork and thirst traps that aren’t safe enough for Instagram!
Pandora Blake
Pandora/Blake is a London (UK) based performer and pornographer and writes about all kinds of topics, namely porn, trans issues, spanking, parenthood, and BDSM. We love their blog, Pandora Blake, because of the variety of topics they write about and their honesty and passion for what they do. One of our favourite posts of theirs is about hiring a sex worker, as a sex worker themselves. A great read!
The Honest Courtesan - Maggie McNeill
On her blog The Honest Courtesan, Maggie McNeill gives an honest perspective on sex work, from her point of view. Her insights and write-ups are frank, and so well written that it’s no wonder she has written multiple books, too.
Maya Morena
Maya Morena has currently deferred her companionship services, but we have always loved her blog, and she has a great archive of her old posts. She speaks a lot about law and being a migrant sex worker, and we love the Masterlist of YouTubers to Support post - lots of great accounts to support!
Sex Blogs
Girly Juice
Kate Sloan writes Girly Juice, a great blog featuring a mixture of topics, including sex, kink, fashion, relationships, mental health, beauty, and more! She’s written for her blog for over 8 years now, and her writing has resulted in some great professional achievements, too, including earning her own B.J. (Bachelor of Journalism)!
Domme Chronicles
For those looking for positive stories about real people living loving D/s relationships (especially female dominant/male submissive), then Domme Chronicles is a great read. Sharyn Ferns (who runs the blog) also has a brilliant podcast, also named ‘Domme Chronicles’ - it’s worth a listen if you want to know more about D/s, BDSM, and other related things.
Kayla Lords
Kayla Lords is a sex blogger, erotic author, babygirl, and much more! She writes about her sexual experiences, her thoughts, and opinions, mental health, and has some great series, including ‘Masturbation Monday’, ‘Wicked Wednesday’, and ‘Sinful Sunday’. If you want an insight, are looking for sex toy reviews, or just want to read some decent smut, give this blog a read.
Molly’s Daily Kiss
British sex blog Molly’s Daily Kiss is a saucy delight! It’s packed full of nudity and very frank portrayals, mainly based around her relationship as a sub to her dom husband, but she also reviews sex toys and writes erotic fiction. Her writing has developed into her running a number of other sites and projects, co-hosting a podcast (It Girl, Rag Doll), having published fiction, and offering her unique photography services.
Sugarbutch
Sugarbutch is an award-winning blog focussed on queer sex, kink, gender, and relationships and is written by Sinclair Sexsmith. Aside from being a more traditional blog, it also features dirty stories, essays, poetry, and reviews. Sinclair is a writer, teacher, and runs workshops about using identity and power as tools for liberation, alongside e-courses on bondage and discipline. You might have heard of them as they are described by Autostraddle as someone who “is in all the books, wins all the awards, speaks at all the panels and readings, knows all the stuff, and writes for all the places”.
Blogs About the Adult Industry
XBiz
XBiz is a media company publishing up-to-the-minute coverage of the adult industry - both digital media and retail. There’s lots of interesting articles on current events in the industry, alongside interesting features, movie reviews, product reviews and much more. Well worth a read if you’re interested in the wider adult industry.
Mike South
The Mike South blog is known as the go-to adult industry blog, with a focus on the porn industry. It’s a great read for those who are professionals, fans, or consumers who want to keep up-to-date on the latest porn and wider adult industry news.
Got any more you’d recommend to us and the VIPFavours community? Let us know by tweeting @VIP_Favours! And if you want some more sex work related media, why not give our post about Sex Work and Sex Worker Hosted Podcasts a read?
Until next time!